Tuesday, May 09, 2006

i watched a very interesting OPRAH show today.
It was about the mirage of marriage.

I will be interested in reading this book...."LIES AT THE ALTAR"

Part of having a successful marriage is both people showing up as their true selves.
Marriage is not two halves making a whole.
It is two whole people coming together being/accepting the other for their true selves.
and I think in the first couple months of our marriage we really had to work through some of these thoughts.........it wasn't about us losing a part of ourselves to become one, but rather accepting all of who the other is.

Justin Souza does not complete me (nor will he ever), but rather he complements me and the plan is that we continue to do so as we both evolve and grow and change.